HOW TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU

How to make him to like you? This is one question that keeps bothering a hundred million (ignore the exaggeration) girls all over the world!

So how do you actually go about getting him interested in you while not being too obvious? Here's how:

BE YOURSELF

Remember that you want him to like you and not somebody you can pretend to be. Guys really like women who can be themselves and who are not scared or ashamed of being truthful about themselves. In the long run (if you plan to go in for it), being yourself and clearly projecting yourself helps in building trust, evading misunderstandings and also makes your partner respect you.

DRESS RIGHT

As the saying goes. “First impression is the LAST impression” and there is no denying about it! Also, do not ever forget that the way you dress up has a lot to do with your first impression. Rather it constitutes a major part of each and every impression of yours, be it first, second or for that matter, the impression. Always dress up according to the occasion, according to your body type and wear clothes that you feel comfortable in. Men like women who carry themselves well more than they like women they can call “hot”!

SHOW HIM WHAT HE NEEDS TO SEE

It's true that you are not supposed to go overboard but that doesn't mean that you sell yourself short. Let him see that you're intelligent, smart and a good person. Nothing appeals to a man more than these qualities.

Also what he needs to see is that you are interested in him. Let him know, by means of your womanly weapons - your gossip monger friends, those eye contacts, the extra attention - whatever it takes, that he is the subject of your attention - at least for the time being.

BE READY WITH SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT

Since you like him, it is presumed that you've done your bit of research on him. So, if finally “the” moment of conversation comes - courtesy your common friends, then you must not go mum! Be prepared with something to talk about. Practice a few conversation starters (not the cheesy ones). If you can keep him busy with talks that don't piss him off, it will, undoubtedly, work in your favor!

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THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO ON YOUR FIRST DATE

You think you have done a lot of research about the ideal first date. Really? Just think again! 

Have you really prepared yourself to make your first date a magical one? You have read a lot, may be more than a lot about what to do on your first date. But did you once think about those things that are never, mind it, NEVER, to be done on a date, especially on your first date? If no, then read on because it is rightly said, “PREVENTION is BETTER than CURE”!

Never Brag about Yourself: Selling yourself short? No. But bragging about yourself? A big no! Bragging or boasting is a big turn off! It's true that you need to talk about yourself and let him know what you are because that is how you get to know each other. But, there is a fine line between talking and bragging and you need to maintain that. After all, you don't want him to go home with an impression that you are self-obsessed!

Never Pretend to Be Someone that you are not: This is pretty simple. Just be yourself on a date. You want the other person to love you and respect you for who you are and not for something that you are-but just temporarily!

Let Past Be Past: So you think that he is just the guy and that you want to spend your entire life with him and that he deserves to know everything about you. Hang on! Remember, it's just a date, that too your first date. You may, rather you should tell him about your past (if any) eventually when you see that the two of you are getting into a relationship but talking about your ex on your first date will only piss him off and even if it doesn't piss him off, trust us, it won't do you any good either!

Do Not Get Drunk: This is one golden rule of the first date: DO NOT GET DRUNK. You tend to do a lot of wrong things when you're drunk! A little social drinking is cool but getting high…ahem ahem…u can surely let that pass!

Do Not Try To Get Touchy: Mt aintain a certain necessary distance with him. If you feel the urge to hug him or kiss him, wait till the end of the date. Even at the end, if you have to then kiss him on the cheek and be the first one to move off from a hug. If you push yourself too much onto him, then BEWARE! He might just get the wrong signal!

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HOW TO KNOW WHEN TO WALK OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP

Relationships, even though you'd never want them to, may actually go awry. In fact, from being just bad they may become rotten or complicated or unhealthy or even worse, abusive! A bad relationship, no matter how prolonged it is, does no good to any of the partners. Because, ultimately what matters in life is quality and not just quantity!

And when you are in an unhealthy relationship, it's time that you call it quits before it turns abusive.

Here are the signs of an unhealthy relationship. Read and compare your relationship (with fingers crossed) to find out if it is time to part ways:

WHEN IT BECOMES IMPOSSIBLE TO COMMUNICATE

Communication is the life blood of any relationship. As long as you can openly and freely communicate, problems are bound to stay at bay. But when you or your partner feel that it has become nearly impossible to convey your thoughts and feelings to each other, then it is time to pause and think.

The good part, though, is that communication issues can be actually resolved by confronting each other. If you attempt to, it may actually start working again!

INTIMACY…WHAT'S THAT? 

It is true that as a relationship matures, the coochy-coo vanishes but intimacy is more than that. It could be a simple holding of hands, a hug or a flower given as a gift for no reason. When you find yourself saying “earlier when this would happen, you would do this...” at a lot of instances, please understand that something g is going wrong! The magic mantra to get out of it is again talking to your partner.

YOU FEEL YOU HAVE BEEN TAKEN FOR GRANTED

Nothing kills more than a sad love life and the feeling of being taken for granted, is just a part of it. If your partner pays no attention towards your feelings but falls on you for everything, you need to tell him that it is a two-way thing that he is into and not a self-comforting therapy.

WHEN THERE IS PHYSICAL ABUSE

There is absolutely no reason to stay with somebody who is violent. If the person cannot respect you so much so as to protect you from any physical harm, rather he is the one harming you, then he is certainly not worth your love. In fact, instances of physical abuse must be reported as criminal offence to the designated authorities despite all odds

WHEN IT'S ONLY FRUSTRATION AND DEPRESSION THAT FILL UP YOUR WORLD.

So you thought that today, no matter what, we'll not fight. And yet again you see that the two of you are in a heated argument, and you are walking back home with all the sadness, frustration and depression that you had vowed that you'll leave behind has again cropped up around you, it is time that you should let go of it. Give yourself some space, some time and some life. Walk out of the sadness and shine.

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