Thursday, 1 December 2011

MAKE A GUY GET COMMITED TO YOU


Are you trying to make him commit to you? Do you find it difficult to find guys who are willing to commit? Do guys seem to make any excuse in order to avoid commitment? If you want to be able to make guys commit then you need to learn about some quite simple tips. These tips are easy to use and will help to make him commit to you.
There are several things that you must do to make him crazy about you, you need to first make sure that you don't appear as being too desperate. You should spend some time apart from him and make sure that he stays excited about you. You also need to make sure that you concentrate on making your times wonderful.
If you spend time doing this then you should be able to make him commit to you fairly easily. Although some guys appear to be scared to commit to a guys this is only because they are cautious. Guys aren't afraid of commitment but they don't see a reason to commit which is why you need to give him a good enough reason. If you give him some space then he will realize how good you are to him.
You do need to make sure that you don't play too hard to get. When the guy calls you to set up a date you should make him excited about it. You should also be excited yourself. You just need to make sure that you're not going over the top. This will make sure that he knows you are interested in him but not too scary.
You also need to give him a reason and show him exactly what he is missing when you're not with him. Make sure that any time you spend together is really exciting and that you can give him lots of attention. This will make the times he spends with you extra special. This will make him want to see you time and time again.
If you spend too much time with him and are available whenever he wants then he might start taking you for granted. If you want to make him commit to you then you should try all of these tips.

HOW TO GET A GIRL FRIEND AND KEEP HER FOR YOURSELF


Have you thought of how to get a girl friend and keep her so that she becomes yours as you have ever desired? There are many ways in how to get a girlfriend and keep her in no more cost. And most of them have to do with a lot of stupid tricks and other stuffs that just plain do not work. What I am going to show you in this write up are a few good solid tactics to getting a girlfriend who you feel is worthy of you and you will love her as you wish you could.
Many guys end up just settling for a girl. They find someone who is needy or takes advantages of them and they think that this is the best they can do. In reality what they have done is accepted something that will not work out. In the end either you or the girl, will leave the relationship. It just will not work for the long-term or work as you have ever wanted it to be. So in a nutshell, do your best not to settle.
So you may then ask, "how do I get a girlfriend that is worthy of me?" And I will ask you, "What do you envision to be a worthy girlfriend?" It sound strange, but this is where you need to start. You have to first visualize what you feel is worthy. Does she have to be beautiful? Does she have to be smart? What kind of job should she have? I want you to make a list and define who you think is worthy of you. Stay away from things like money or branded clothing. Below is an example of the list I would make if I was trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend.
1) She needs to be pretty.
2) She needs to be caring.
3) She needs to be family oriented.
4) She needs to have a respectable job (No strippers, etc.)
5) She needs to believe in long term commitments.

I want you to start your list and make it bigger than this one above. All I did was create a starting point for you. I want you to visualize this girl as you write your own list.
How to get a girlfriend inside your own head is the easy part. You have probably done this already a number of times, but never wrote it down. Now it is time to work on you. You need to work on your confidence and to do this you need to tell yourself that you are worthy of finding a person exactly as you described. If you have problem walking up to a girl and talking to her, then this confidence building exercise is going to help you. Beautiful girls only respond to a confident guy.

Look at yourself in the mirror and concentrate on your face. Look for all the good traits and focus on those. Work on keeping your shoulders relaxed. You can do this by reaching your fingers to the ground. This will lower your shoulders and train you to walk with them relaxed.

Next I want you to look at yourself in the mirror and smile. Look at your eyebrows and your eyes. Now stop smiling and keep your eyes and eyebrows somewhat the same. Learn to keep your face like this, when you walk into a room or see a girl for the first time, you will be smiling with your eyes. This is a big turn on for girls. A relaxed walking style is also important. Put them together and you have a winning first impression.

Now you know how to get a girlfriend. You need to practice these things before trying them out in real life. You are going to be surprised at the changes you will see in yourself and also in the kind of girls you attract.

Monday, 21 November 2011

HOW TO TELL WHEN YOUR FRIEND IS LYING TO YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP

Ever wonder if a person is telling you a lie when in a normal state or in a relationship? There are clues which can tell you that a person is being less than truthful to you and there are methods you can use to get at the truth or manipulate the situation.

How To Spot if he or she is lying to you:

1. No eye contact. His eyes will look away. If the room has a means of egress - that's where they'll look.

 
2. Crossing of arms and/or legs (a protective instinct).
 
3. The pupils of the eyes will narrow. Lying is stressful.
 
4. Hands on the face, especially the mouth. They are "covering" the lie.
 
5. Talking fast. A liar wants to get it over with.
 
6. Sometimes the head will nod a "no" when answering a "yes" question or visa versa. This is a subconscious movement.
 
7. Mispronouncing the words or mumbling. A liar kind of thinks he is not lying when he pronounces words incorrectly or mumbles.
 
8. Overstated friendliness/laughing. He wants you to believe and he wants you to like him so you will believe him.

How Not To Be Lied To:

 

1. Sit in the higher chair. A subtle sort of intimidation.
 
2. Uncross your legs and open your arms - lean back. Make yourself "open" to the truth.
3. Ask for minute details (a challenge to the liar).
 
4. Don't ever tell them what you DO know - don't point out you know what they are saying is a lie. This is your own ego trip.
 
 5. Invade their personal space. Get close, they'll get uncomfortable (good).
 
6. Mimic their posture and movements..be subtle. This establishes a rapport and they'll never figure out why.
 
7. Speak in their style. Listen to how they think. If the person says things like "I HEAR ya!" or "that SOUNDS good", you'll know he thinks auditorially or with his ears. If he says "I shoulda SEEN it comin" or "I SEE what you mean", you'll know he is visually oriented. If he says things like "it HIT me like a tons of bricks" or "I just FROZE in my tracks", you'll know he thinks by feelings. Speak to him the same way. A good test is to ask someone to recite the alphabet. Some people will stare as if they are looking at the alphabet above the blackboard in grade school (visual), some people will sing the alphabet (auditory) and some people will taps out the letters (feeling). If you match their thinking method, you'll have instant rapport.
 
8. Give 'em an "out". You gotta make it easy for them to to tell the truth. Pretend you didn't hear them correctly or tell them you didn't understand what they said. Always leave a way out so they recant their words and tell the truth.
 
9. Stay calm. Never show surprise or shock. Treat everything they say with the same importance. The first time you react negatively you will lose any chance of being told the truth.

Hope these few steps can help in one way or the other for you to know when some is lying to you weather in relationship or not

Thursday, 17 November 2011

5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO UR GUY

  • “You look old” or “you've grown fuller” or “your outfit doesn't really fit into the whole setup” - we all know that these are a few of the many things that you don't say to a woman-EVER!
But did you ever think that there might be a few phrases that you shouldn't say to a man? If no, then this is a wake-up call!

Although you might have used these innocently, but you may fail to realise that these seemingly nice and innocent phrases of concern may actually be the ones that leave a real long lasting impression on his mind and a deep scar on his ego, if used over and over again.
Here are the 5 things that you should never say to your man!
  • “I DON'T THINK WE CAN AFFORD. LEAVE IT.”

Men like to be thought of as reliable creatures. A man needs to feel that his partner feels secure in his presence: physically, emotionally (yes, men too think of emotional stability and that too for you) but most importantly, financially. Also, most men are spenders by nature.
They like to splurge every once in a while even when their pocket is a little small.
You may have said this to him out of your concern to save up for a rainy day, but if you say so more than often, you may actually be destroying his faith in himself. Not just this, doing so may make him believe that you don't have a belief in him and that will eventually destroy his belief in you.


“YOU SHOULD LEARN A LESSON FROM HIM (YOUR FRIEND)!”

Never ever ever say this to your man! Men hate being compared to other men and if you think that by enlisting a few good qualities of someone else, you can make him learn something, then just pick this thought form your mind and throw it in the farthest dustbin!
And God forbid if you ever dare to refer to his friend when you say “him”, then you will actually ruin his day along with his mood! Accept it for a fact that men can't let behavioural comparison pass through their big fat egos, so just let this thought pass every time it arises inside you.



“I PROMISED HIM/HER THAT I WOULDN'T LET THIS OUT BUT I AM TELLING YOU, OKAY?”

Here you may actually be trying to show him that you trust him so much so that you are ready to forget all promises that you've made to your friends but when you start a sentence in this manner, it makes it look like a piece of gossip, no matter how serious it may be.
Also, eventually it might make him believe that you are not a trustworthy person because you can't keep any secrets with you and he might just think of you as a bad friend.
So whenever you have something of such sort to tell him, make sure you find a better way of saying it, like, “I know I can share this with you because I know that you'll maintain the secrecy of this issue”. This makes him know that you care about your friend's feelings and also that you trust him enough to make him a part of the whole thing and not just an outlet for channelising your gossip-flow.

“ARE YOU INSANE? THIS IS STUPID! WE SHOULDN'T DO THIS!”

Guys like to have fun and go wild and do adventurous stuff every now and then. And if he thinks that you can be a part of it, then you should actually be happy about it instead of snapping at him.
Of course there might be things that make no sense at all. For instance, if he says that let's go out and make out in the park, then you ought to give him a reality check but if he wants to talk you into something thrilling (something that is safe enough and certainly not illegal) then you should at least support him if you can't gather the courage to give it a try. But if you do decide to give it a shot with him then you'll see how strong your bond gets.

Just know the things you should say and you should not say when you see yourself in a serious relationship to avoid unexpected break up...Hear am!

Monday, 26 September 2011

MEN'S GROOMING HABITS THAT TURN LADIES OFF



Men’s Grooming characters That Turn Ladies Off.

Ladies, you should just agree with me,some of

the terrible grooming habits of your guys have

become all the more glaring.

Ladies're not asking guys to do anything they

don't do themselves.. Some ladies were asked

by Facebook friends to share the grooming

issues that irk them the most, and the answers

were awfully familiar. One lady asked if they

could please paste the comments "on a huge

billboard that all men can see." Well, here's the

billboard equivalent!


See the top ten offenses below and add more

by posting on our comment wall.


1. Long, dirty toe nails. Or, as one Lady called

it, "Hobbit feet." I love that. It's true. Guys, you

don't have to sit for a pedicure, but there's no

excuse for claws filled with dirt.


2.Hair where it shouldn't be. Nose hair was the

number-one complaint with ear hair a close

second. "Why is it so hard to buy a clipper and a

mirror?" asked a completely reasonable Lady.

We don't have the answer.

3.Mouth madness. This is just basics. We're

brushing, flossing, and whitening, but certain

guys seem to think they can get away

with "yuck mouth," as a lady called it. Not true.

4. Unattractive smells. This can mean not

showering often enough or not embracing

deodorant. This is also related to #3 (see

above).

5. Eyebrow issues. Either overgrown or over

plucked. Ladies don't want unruly, caveman

hairs, but they also don't want you to look

more sculpted than they do.

6. Too much cologne perfume. If everything

you touch starts to smell like your medicine

cabinet, that's not good.

7. Too much waxing. There's grooming and

then there's grooming. No one wants to feel

like they're with a newborn.


8. Dry, cracked heels. You can put lotion on

them, you know.

9. Hair that never moves. If your hair is as hard

as a car door, you've got to rethink your hair

products.

10. Letting your blackheads live on. Everyone

has zits, especially in the hot season. But, jeez,

if you have blackheads on your face, deal with

them or book a facial where someone else will.

I will like to add this,

11. Romantic voice when not neccessary. Some

of us use soft voice when it is not needed.

When you are called a man,your voice should

be like that of mine and not like that of your

lady,if not? go get some Brandy

If you like this,you can share it on your wall

and let we guys read it and make some

adjustments so that ladies will like us and vice

versa....
Post your comments on what you feel have

HOW TO SATISTY A WOMAN

Have you ever thought of how to satisfy a woman or your girl friend or even your fiancee and make her love you till get tired of being loved? Here are the tested and pure things to do and increase her love for you;

Caress her, praise her, pamper her, relish,

savor, massage, make plans, fix,

empathize, serenade, compliment,

support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor,

placate, stimulate, jiffylube, stroke,

console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify,

protect, phone, correspond, anticipate,

nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to,

forgive, sacrifice for, ply, accessorize,

leave, return, beseech, sublimate,

entertain, charm, lug, drag, crawl, show

equality for, spackle, oblige, fascinate,

attend, implore, bawl, shower, shave,

trust, grovel, ignore, defend, coax, clothe,

brag about, acquiesce, aromatize, fuse,

fizz, rationalize, detoxify, sanctify, help,

acknowledge, polish, upgrade, spoil,

embrace, accept, butter-up, hear,

understand, jitterbug, locomote, beg,

plead, borrow, steal, climb, swim, nurse,

resuscitate, repair, patch, crazy-glue,

respect, entertain, calm, allay, kill for, die

for, dream of, promise, deliver, tease, flirt,

commit, enlist, pine, cajole, Anglicize,

murmur, snuggle, snoozle, snurfle,

elevate, enervate, alleviate, spotweld,

serve, rub, rib, salve, bite, taste, nibble,

gratify, take her places, scuttle like a crab

on the ocean floor of her existence,

diddle, doodle, hokey-pokey, hanky-

panky, crystal blue persuade, flip, flop, fly,

don't care if I die, swing, slip, slide,

slather, mollycoddle, squeeze, moisturize,

humidify, lather, tingle, slam-dunk, keep

on rockin' in the free world, wet, slicken,

undulate, gelatinize, brush, tingle,

dribble, drip, dry, knead, fluff, fold, blue-

coral wax, ingratiate, indulge, wow,

dazzle, amaze, flabbergast, enchant,

idolize and worship,

and then go back, and start again from the top.

HOW TO SATISFY A MAN:
Show up naked with a bottle of beer !!!!.

Does this really show that women are bunch of problem? Then man has only few problems to carter for;beer and sex?

Sunday, 25 September 2011

7 GUYS AND LADIES YOU SHOULD NEVER MARRY,SAY NO

7 Guys and Ladies You Must Never Marry



Sex hunter-
This is very common among young men and women. Any man or woman that will tell you that you can have sex before marriage is deceiving you and the person is a cheat, run for your life.

A man or woman without vision-
Look for someone that has a vision and a future, do not go into a relationship with a man or woman with no vision

Do not marry a stubborn lady-
Don’t let lust and physical attraction to lure you to marrying a stubborn lady

Mummy’s boy-
The kind of boy at 35, is still tied to the mother. Stay away, the mother will want to intervene in every of his issues

Nagger-
Stay away from a nagging man or woman, except you want to be quarrelling in your marriage everyday

Master and miss available- Don’t go into marriage because he or she is the only option or available person at the moment. Wait the right person might be coming

Contention and high temperament-emotional immaturity.
Do not marry a contentious man or woman, someone who does not easily forgive, and bears with each other weakness. A man or woman that cannot say sorry.
Run for your life.

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Monday, 5 September 2011

CONVERT A TRIAL VERSION SOFTWARE AND RUN IT FOREVER ON YOUR SYSTEMCONVERT A TRIAL VERSION SOFTWARE AND RUN IT FOREVER ON YOUR SYSTEM

Trial Version Forever



In this tutorial, I’ll show you how to convert a Trial Version Software and run the trial program forever.

Most of us are familiar with many softwares that run only for a specified period of time in the trial mode.
Once the trial period is expired these softwares stop functioning and demand for a purchase. But there is a way to run the softwares and make them function beyond the trial period.

Isn’t this interesting?????????????????
But before I tell you how to convert the software and make it run in the trial mode forever, we have to understand the functioning of these softwares.

I’ll try to explain this in brief. When these softwares are installed for the first time in your system, they make an entry into the Windows Registry with the details such as Installed Date and Time, installed path etc.

After installation every time you run the software, it compares the current system date and time with the installed date and time. So, with this it can make out whether the trial period is expired or not. So with this being the case, just manually changing the system date to an earlier date will not solve the problem. For this purpose there is a small Tool known as RunAsDate.

RunAsDate is a small utility that allows you to run a program in the date and time that you specify. This utility doesn’t change the current system date, but it only injects the date/time that you specify into the desired application.

RunAsDate intercepts the kernel API calls that returns the current date and time (GetSystemTime, GetLocalTime, GetSystemTimeAsFileTime), and replaces the current date/time with the date/time that you specify.
It works with Windows 2000, XP, 2003 and Vista.

NOTE: FOLLOW THESE FEW STEPS CAREFULLY

You have to follow these steps carefully to successfully convert a software and make it run in it’s trial mode forever.

1. Note down the date and time, when you install the software for the first time.

2. Once the trial period expires, you must always run the software using RunAsDate.

3. After the trial period is expired, do not run the software(program) directly. If you run the software directly even once, this convertion may no longer work.

4. It is better and safe to inject the date of the last day in the trial period. For example, if the trial period expires on jan 30 2009, always inject the date as jan 29 2009 in the RunAsDate.

I hope this helps! Please express your experience and opinions through comments.

 
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