How To Increase Her Dersire For You

So you've finally found a woman who really gets your juices flowing and gets you hot at the mere site of her, but how do you increase her desire for you and keep her out of the arms of other men who may have better relationship skills than you do?

As you're trying to keep the attraction flowing in your relationship, remember to maintain a confident attitude. Women love confidence in a man and displaying a confident self-image will boost her attraction to you.
Your attitude should be that you're the catch, and you're doing her a favor by allowing her into your life. You shouldn't cheat on her, but you should keep contact with other single, sexy women and make lots of female friends. If she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time, her desire will be increased and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away.

When you first start dating a woman, you try very hard to impress her; however, after a while, many men began feeling too comfortable and begin slacking. Women are obsessed with clothing and their own appearance and will quickly switch off their sex drive if you start looking sloppy, so keep yourself up, don't get complacent about your hygiene and appearance.

Women love to be showered with attention and need to feel wanted. So if you'd like her to stay around for a while, make sure she knows that she still turns you on by charming and complimenting her. Make her feel special and you'll keep her desire burning hot for you.

Keep in mind that women love challenges and, so make her work a little to be part of your life. Being a challenge to women is a good thing. Don't allow her to take you for granted, so learn to make yourself less available and more unpredictable. Women always want what they can't have, so it's important to keep balance in your relationship by continuing to do masculine things that you like, for example sports and hanging out with your buddies.

Last but not least, don't allow yourself to become a clingy, approval-seeking doormat who calls her numerous times a day and constantly showers her with gifts. If you smother her and acting insecure, she could start feeling trapped and leave anyway. Remember, insecurity is not attractive to women at all.

Using these tips could keep your woman from ever wanting to go anywhere else

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Some Signs Your Being Needy....It Scares Them Off

Women love dating men who are confident and real. They want to feel like you need them... but only if you already have your own life, your own ambitions, and your own goals. The moment a man starts getting too clingy in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills. Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement from women.

Remember you are trying to attract women, not turn them off. Below are five signs that you are being needy, so if you suffer from any of these signs of neediness, you need to stop those actions immediately.


1. Overly Calling/Emailing/Texting Her
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to overly call, email or send text messages early in a relationship, especially when she hasn't returned any of your messages. Or you make the fatal mistake of calling the woman you're dating, and ask "Did you just call me?" after you receive a call from an unrecognized number.

You don't need to check in every two hours and calling a woman should be as spontaneous as calling one of your male friends. Call or text her once and if she doesn’t respond, you can call or text her one more time. After that, you shouldn't be calling or sending her text messages her again until she does first. Don't waste time sitting by the phone waiting for her to call you. Being strong and not contacting her and her will spark her interest and make her call you.


2. Being Overly Emotional
The overly-emotional guy shares all his feelings with women right away, always doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her, she might doubt your ability to do this. Remember, women want a man who is confident and independent--not insecure and dependent.


3. Always Being Available
Always being available makes women think that you don't have a life of your own and actually lessens your own attractiveness, making you far less desirable. Being a challenge to women makes you more desirable. When you meet a woman you like, show interest in her, but ensure that you keep your regular schedule and don't be available every single day. Don't call so or text her too frequently and don't always answer your phone for her. If you have plans with a friend, keep those plans even if the woman you're dating asks you to do something that night.


4. Doing Whatever She Wants
Some men will let a woman walk all over them and then continue to be a doormat, giving up things they really value in an effort to align their lives with a woman’s wishes. Don't be one of them. A needy man will do whatever a woman wants. Women are not looking for a man who agrees with everything they say, and you do your relationship a good bit of damage when you show yourself to be indecisive. Men who display this behavior quickly fall into the dreaded FRIENDZONE with women and simply become one of their girlfriends in a sense.

Don't do everything she wants, even if you want to do it. Women are looking for confident men someone who can stimulate their minds and not bore them. Women are not turned on by men they can completely control. Standing up for yourself and being a man of action will lead her to respect you and find you a lot more attractive in the long run. Feel secure with yourself, believe in yourself and know you have great worth.


5. Being Too Nice to Her
Trying to please a woman all the time, showing your feelings too often and letting a woman walk all over you are clear signs that you're needy. Overly nice guys don't show the confidence or strength that women are attracted to. Although men should do nice things for women, they have to earn it first. Avoid giving a woman money or gifts too often and don't be too nice or too attached until the relationship is well established.

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Signs She Has Lost Interest in You

Has your girlfriend suddenly started acting differently around you? Have you been trying to understand her actions but just can't seem to figure them out? Well, the reason she's been acting differently may be because she is losing interest in you.

We examined signs of a woman's low interest level in the early dating stages. But what about when you've been together for a while? If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned.


1. She puts her girlfriends ahead of you
All women are entitled to a girl's night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.

2. She avoids public affection with you
If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.


3. She's lost interest in sex (with you)
If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you're rarely hitting the sheets anymore, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.


4. She starts fights with you
If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.


5. She shows interest in other guys
If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you're right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she's shopping around for another man.


6. She's put distance between you
A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don't see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong.Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.


7. She's no longer affectionate toward you
If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you're always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.


8. She begins saying “I” instead of “we”
If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore.

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Signs That Show You Are Being Used

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship situation where you're constantly calling the girl, taking her out and being devoted, sweet and kind to her only to get games, drama and inconsistency in return? While most women want to be with a man who treats them right and is ready for commitment, there are selfish and opportunistic women who intentionally take advantage of men and relationships. Here are  signs on how to tell if she's just using you.

1. She doesn't keep dates with you

She repeatedly tells you how interested she is and how much she wants to see you; however, when dates are scheduled, she cancels at the last minute or something always seems to come up to prevent the two of you from meeting unless she needs something from you.There's a chance this woman doesn't enjoy your company at all and is in fact using you.

2. She doesn't return your phone calls
If the girl seldom returns your calls in a timely manner, always has a busy schedule and only calls when she wants something from you or needs a favor, it should be clear that she is using you and that you are not a priority.


3. She only hangs out with you as a last resort
A woman that desires you will create time in her busy schedule to be with you. But If she only makes plans with you at the last minute, as if nothing better came her way or when plans with her friends fizzle, you're pretty much an after thought and her last resort when she's bored.

4. She's only interested in what you can give her  A normal couple alternates in buying each other dinner and gifts; however, there are many situations where women only see men as a source of movie tickets and food or, even worse--a rent check or a down payment for a car.

Ask yourself the following questions: Are you constantly buying things for her and receiving nothing in return? Do you always pay when you go out and find yourself spending more money on her than you counted on? Does she borrow money from you but never pays you back? Does she write you off whenever you're not spending money on her? If you answered yes to these, the lady in your life is a gold digger.


5. Her future plans don't include you
If she only has short term plans about your relationship, gives no answer when you ask about what your relationship will be like three years from now and always avoids talking about meeting her friends or parents, she is more than likely using you to fill a temporary void in her life until someone better comes along.

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Things to Text a Girl to Make Her Want You Really Bad

Are you like most guys, chasing Hot girls away with B-O-R-I-N-G text messages?
I'm gonna tell you what makes a hot girl want you AT ALL - and then we'll apply that to your text messages.

Some Key Factors That Make a Woman Want You More Than Someone Else

1. You have high value in yourself compared to other men and she senses that.
2. You are confident which reveals itself in your body language, tone of voice, and communication style.
3. You are a challenge to her. Men and women are universal in the fact that we want what we don't have.
4. You are not intimidated by her beauty. In fact, you find ways to playfully tease her about her weaknesses, whether real or imagined.
5. You make her feel something (excitement, curiosity, interest) when you communicate with her.
Most men do not have these qualities or traits. So when an attractive girl encounters a guy who does possess these qualities, it triggers her attraction and she wants that.


Let's see these traits in action that are a turn on by using the texting style, which is short, fun and flirty
Let's really raise the stakes and say you met a stunningly beautiful girl at a bar on Saturday. She knows she's hot. Guys are falling all over her.
She was closer to your buddy at the bar and she turned to him and asked, "All these guys are staring at me. Do you think I'm cute?" Your buddy didn't know what hit him and he just babbled something.
Instead you played it different and had a fun time teasing her when you answered her question by saying, "Actually they're looking at that big pimple on your forehead."
She turned toward you; laughed and hit you in the arm. Well, you easily got her number that night.
Now, you're going to play off that funny exchange when you send your first text in a day or two.

Flirty Texting Convo That Will Turn Her On
You: "Hey, I hope your skin doctor was able to remove that growth on your forehead people were staring at?"
You continue to tease her about the "pimple" she had on her forehead and pull her into the conversation in a playful way.
Her: "Ha ha. I was able to tame that beast with my own home concoctions. I thought that growth might have scared you off."
She knows your teasing and banters back. That's a good sign.
You: "I'm not saying it wasn't scary looking but I've also looked down the mouth of a volcano before and stood my ground."
This is a fun way to challenge her or qualify her and women love this.
Her: "Ha, ha. So you think you're Indiana Jones?
She knows how to play, too, and gives you a challenge.
You: "Sounds like you might have a whip fetish."
You don't have to answer all her questions right then. Control the convo. She'll be more curious about you - curious enough to see you again if you finish this texting exchange right.
Her: "That's for me to know and you to find out."
You: "Are you asking me out on a date? You're kinda forward."
You just switched things up on her, implying that she is pursuing you. Women love this flirty banter and it triggers attraction.
Her: "Ha, ha. Brat."
You: "Tell you what. If your forehead looks presentable, I'll let you buy me a drink at a sportsbar I usually stop at on Tuesdays."
You don't ask her or invite her on a date. You suggest she join you on your plans. Women love a man who can take the lead. It's a B-I-G TURN ON.
HER: "Ha, ha. Sounds fun."
You: "Cool, I'll call you later and let you know when and where."
You kept the convo short, fun and flirty and you triggered a deeper attraction in you.
HER: "Can't wait."
You will call her with the details because real men pick up the phone to confirm a date.
See how easy, natural and flirty this exchange was?
All women love it. You'll have the really hot ones eager to be with you when and where ever you suggest.
Why? Because most guys don't have clue about triggering attraction with texting. You'll be a breath of fresh air...and she will really want some of that!

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PREPARING FOR YOUR FIRST DATE

THERE are lists of some of the preparations that you can do on your first date. Thinking about it can be challenging but I hope this list can help you get through the first and have a second, a third date or more.

Think about you will wear - prepping what you will wear in advance will make you a little relaxed when the date day comes. Make sure that it will be appropriate to the place that you are going.

Get a good rest - getting a good rest before your date will make you physically awake and lively
Listen to music - listening to good music while you are preparing can set your mood and keep you calm.

Don't Panic - hard not to panic because we all want to impress our date at first sight so try to look dazzling but don't overdo it. Look at yourself in the mirror, breath and ask yourself what else is missing.

Wear your best perfume - don't spray too much though, just put a fair amount on your wrist and a little on the back of your ear which are the strongest pulse points.

Tell your best friend - whether it's the first or the second or the third date it is better that your friends, or probably siblings know where you are going or even an idea about who you're going out with.

Fresh Breath - make sure you have fresh breath when you meet your date, I mean clean your teeth and use a mouthwash. Mint gums can also be kept on your bag in case of emergency, in case of a spicy food coming in to the table.

Make a list of good topics - you can look at your date's profile or know his/her interests, try to remember this list on your head. Try not to talk about your issues at home, at the office. Try to start a good joke or ask him some questions that can lead to a good conversation. Don't talk about yourself too much.

Don't drink too much - this is your first date and you are not just having a good time with your friends. You may want to avoid anything that can turn him off. You are on a date and not to get drunk with someone you just met in a bar. This can be your chance to change that Relationship Status from Single to In a Relationship.

Have fun - Have F U N. Remember you are on a date because you want to be happy and you want to have fun. So have a good one.

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THINGS TO DO AND THINGS NOT TO DO IN YOUR FIRST DATE

What dress to wear? What suit to wear? What hairstyle? Wait, stop right there! Stop panicking this is not the end of the world.

This is just, your FIRST DATE. Chill. Almost all of us want to give our first date a good impression. They say first that impression last so make sure you will not mess things up. While you are panicking your date might be trying his best to make everything romantic. Try to focus on your actual date, on the actual conversation that you are going to have while on a date.
 
Dos:

• Be Yourself - Being yourself is still much better than pretending to be someone you are not.
• Be a good listener - This date is not just about you. You should know when to listen to your date and stop talking about yourself. This is a getting to know each other date not a get-to-know-me date.
• Try to have fun - Be open to new date ideas. Your date night might not be the typical let's go out to dinner and movie afterwards. Your date may come up with some cool ideas that make him unique from the others.
• Consider wearing flats - A long walk in town after dinner or a movie is another way to get to know each other and wearing heels may hinder that lovely moment that you can have.
• Wear Sexy Undies - Who knows where this date will bring you two after all the talking, the long walks, the dinner. You don't want him to end up seeing your granny undies.
• Make eye contact - You can tell whether the person is sincere by looking him in the eye or making eye contact. Some can fake it but it's good to know you are

Don'ts:

• Don't Talk about your past relationship - Nobody wants to hear your past relationship on a first date. I mean that's the reason why you are on a date right? To forget the past and move on. So try to move on and explore a new horizon.
• Don't get ahead of yourself - your date may not be the one you are expecting but give him a chance, who knows he may not be expecting you as her date but is still trying to make a connection.
• Don't Leave him hanging - If you want to see him again on a second date let him know that the date great was some positive words like "It was a pleasure meeting you. I had a great time." Sometimes the way you talk to them or your gestures can tell them that you are interested and had fun. On the other hand, if you're not interested don't show him you are.
• Don't pretend to be someone you're not - If you don't eat shrimp and he loves it. Don't eat it just to please him. You may just end up with rash all over your face and that can turn him off aside from the fact that you are pretending eating shrimp is okay.
• Don't Drink more than you can handle - This is a first date not a friend that knows the effect of alcohol in your system. A glass of wine or two will do. He may be the right guy for but you may get him turned off for drinking too much alcohol.
• Don't Talk dirty or talk about sex - If both of you have planned about having sex then it's probably okay. It's nice to have a good conversation and that may be something to look forward to on your second date.
• Don't text or talk on the phone - Doing this may give your date the impression that you're not interested with the person. When you need to send a very important text or make an important phone call you can excuse your self go to the bathroom or something but don't stay there for long either.

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How To Approach Any Beautiful Women

So how do I approach a beautiful girl?
Well, there are countless ways you can do this. One of the most common ones that guys still use, and will continue to use for years to come is,
"Hi there, you're incredibly gorgeous. My name's John, what's yours? I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to go to dinner with me?"
Now this is not an offensive or outrageous way of approaching a beautiful woman, but it's just BORING! She has seen this hundreds of times. What makes you any different? It's too typical for them. Any stunning woman will hear this type of line 5-10 times a day.

Try this next time,
Casually go up to hear and give her a humourous compliment on something she is wearing or doing. I like to pick something unique she is wearing like a bracelet or perhaps a tattoo. I usually like to start there. This is an approach that is safe for those conservatives.

Another I prefer is the 'Phone Opinion'. I pretend I'm talking on the phone to a buddy about his girlfriend. Then I will ask a question to a girl about our 'conversation'. It will always be about relationships like, "Who cheats more? Men or Women?" This opens up an entire afternoon of conversation. Women LOVE talking about relationships. Why do you think they love soap operas so much?

You might feel an anxiety to approach a beautiful girl. This is where I must emphasize that you must break out of your COMFORT ZONE. As with most goals in life, you'll need to do things you don't feel comfortable with. Get it in your head that you will need to deal with these anxieties and break through them.
What seems to happen a lot is that when a guy finally works up the courage to break out of his comfort zone and do something crazy to meet a woman, and it doesn't turn out the way he wanted, he'll chalk it up as a failure and feel rejected.

And in order to get rid of that feeling, he'll block out what happened, and promise never to "do that again" to protect himself from ever having to feel that way.
But it's those opportunities and experiences that teach us the most valuable lessons we can learn about women, social interaction, dating, and relationships. It's when things go wrong that you learn what NOT to do - which in many ways is just as important to know as what TO do.
Looking back on my personal experiences, I now know what NOT to do.
But the biggest lesson I learned was the idea that failure is subjective.
This is what you must realize.

Understand: In your journey to master the approach you will meet failure, rejection, and set backs.
BUT... if you are willing to focus on the positives and not the negatives, you will continue to grow and get better and meeting and attracting women.

All the best in life and women!

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