I'm gonna tell you what makes a hot girl want you AT ALL - and then we'll apply that to your text messages.
Some Key Factors That Make a Woman Want You More Than Someone Else
1. You have high value in yourself compared to other men and she senses that.
2. You are confident which reveals itself in your body language, tone of voice, and communication style.
3. You are a challenge to her. Men and women are universal in the fact that we want what we don't have.
4. You are not intimidated by her beauty. In fact, you find ways to playfully tease her about her weaknesses, whether real or imagined.
5. You make her feel something (excitement, curiosity, interest) when you communicate with her.
Most men do not have these qualities or traits. So when an attractive girl encounters a guy who does possess these qualities, it triggers her attraction and she wants that.
Let's see these traits in action that are a turn on by using the texting style, which is short, fun and flirty
Let's really raise the stakes and say you met a stunningly beautiful girl at a bar on Saturday. She knows she's hot. Guys are falling all over her.
She was closer to your buddy at the bar and she turned to him and asked, "All these guys are staring at me. Do you think I'm cute?" Your buddy didn't know what hit him and he just babbled something.
Instead you played it different and had a fun time teasing her when you answered her question by saying, "Actually they're looking at that big pimple on your forehead."
She turned toward you; laughed and hit you in the arm. Well, you easily got her number that night.
Now, you're going to play off that funny exchange when you send your first text in a day or two.
Flirty Texting Convo That Will Turn Her On
You: "Hey, I hope your skin doctor was able to remove that growth on your forehead people were staring at?"
You continue to tease her about the "pimple" she had on her forehead and pull her into the conversation in a playful way.
Her: "Ha ha. I was able to tame that beast with my own home concoctions. I thought that growth might have scared you off."
She knows your teasing and banters back. That's a good sign.
You: "I'm not saying it wasn't scary looking but I've also looked down the mouth of a volcano before and stood my ground."
This is a fun way to challenge her or qualify her and women love this.
Her: "Ha, ha. So you think you're Indiana Jones?
She knows how to play, too, and gives you a challenge.
You: "Sounds like you might have a whip fetish."
You don't have to answer all her questions right then. Control the convo. She'll be more curious about you - curious enough to see you again if you finish this texting exchange right.
Her: "That's for me to know and you to find out."
You: "Are you asking me out on a date? You're kinda forward."
You just switched things up on her, implying that she is pursuing you. Women love this flirty banter and it triggers attraction.
Her: "Ha, ha. Brat."
You: "Tell you what. If your forehead looks presentable, I'll let you buy me a drink at a sportsbar I usually stop at on Tuesdays."
You don't ask her or invite her on a date. You suggest she join you on your plans. Women love a man who can take the lead. It's a B-I-G TURN ON.
HER: "Ha, ha. Sounds fun."
You: "Cool, I'll call you later and let you know when and where."
You kept the convo short, fun and flirty and you triggered a deeper attraction in you.
HER: "Can't wait."
You will call her with the details because real men pick up the phone to confirm a date.
See how easy, natural and flirty this exchange was?
All women love it. You'll have the really hot ones eager to be with you when and where ever you suggest.
Why? Because most guys don't have clue about triggering attraction with texting. You'll be a breath of fresh air...and she will really want some of that!
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