Girls love to text and text messaging is one of the greatest and most powerful tools for guys if you want to be successful with women today.
Use This 3-Step Texting Formula for Your First Text to that Hottie You Just Met:
Step #1: The Right Tone:
You must set the right tone in your texts. They should be short, fun and flirty.
Most guys come off sounding too nice (and nice means B-O-R-I-N-G).
Step #2: The Right Communication Style:
Men and women communicate differently. You must communicate on an emotional level with a girl for her to feel attracted to you.
Most guys make the mistake of texting a girl like they do their buddies. Wrong!
Step #3: Bust On Her or Tease Her:
You need to bust on her or tease her about something that she did or wore when you first met her.
This means that you need to remember something when you first met her to use to tease her and play off that. It could be what she wore when you met her like some really spiky shoes or a bright top or big purse.
It could be her infectious laugh or the way she wrinkles her nose or makes a face. It could be something that happened that was funny or a little embarrassing to her when you met her.
Let's say the girl had a big purse with her the night you met her. Girls love those big purses to throw all their stuff in. You teased her about that big purse, so this is what you're going to use when you text her in the next day or two.
You: "Hey, I was in the mall yesterday and saw something that got me thinking about you."
It doesn't matter if you really were in the mall or not. The idea is to set up the convo with making her a little curious and to pull her into the conversation. Girls love that you're thinking about them, but you're going to do this with a twist.
Her: "Oh yeah. What was that?"
You: "I passed by the magic shop and thought, Wow, that purse you had the other night could actually make a man disappear. Magic could be your perfect hidden talent."
You busted her on her huge purse and gave her something to play off of with the hidden talent comment.
Let's she if she bites.
Her: "Ha, ha. I love that purse. I don't do magic tricks but I have other hidden talents."
Perfect. You teased her and got her laughing. This is a turn on. Even better, she's flirting back. So keep up the flirty banter.
You: "Other hidden talents, huh? Should I be impressed or a little scared?"
Her: "That's for me to know and you to find out."
You: "Are you asking me out? That's kind of forward."
You just switched things up on her, implying that she is pursuing you. Women love this flirty banter and it's a turn on.
Her: "Ha, ha. Brat."
See how easy, natural and flirty that first text exchange was? Women love it and they get turned on.
Now, that sexy girl will think about you more because you stand out from all the other boring texts guys are sending her trying to get her attention. The more she thinks about you, the more she will want to be with you. Got it?
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