Well, there are countless ways you can do this. One of the most common ones that guys still use, and will continue to use for years to come is,
"Hi there, you're incredibly gorgeous. My name's John, what's yours? I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to go to dinner with me?"
Now this is not an offensive or outrageous way of approaching a beautiful woman, but it's just BORING! She has seen this hundreds of times. What makes you any different? It's too typical for them. Any stunning woman will hear this type of line 5-10 times a day.
Try this next time,
Casually go up to hear and give her a humourous compliment on something she is wearing or doing. I like to pick something unique she is wearing like a bracelet or perhaps a tattoo. I usually like to start there. This is an approach that is safe for those conservatives.
Another I prefer is the 'Phone Opinion'. I pretend I'm talking on the phone to a buddy about his girlfriend. Then I will ask a question to a girl about our 'conversation'. It will always be about relationships like, "Who cheats more? Men or Women?" This opens up an entire afternoon of conversation. Women LOVE talking about relationships. Why do you think they love soap operas so much?
You might feel an anxiety to approach a beautiful girl. This is where I must emphasize that you must break out of your COMFORT ZONE. As with most goals in life, you'll need to do things you don't feel comfortable with. Get it in your head that you will need to deal with these anxieties and break through them.
What seems to happen a lot is that when a guy finally works up the courage to break out of his comfort zone and do something crazy to meet a woman, and it doesn't turn out the way he wanted, he'll chalk it up as a failure and feel rejected.
And in order to get rid of that feeling, he'll block out what happened, and promise never to "do that again" to protect himself from ever having to feel that way.
But it's those opportunities and experiences that teach us the most valuable lessons we can learn about women, social interaction, dating, and relationships. It's when things go wrong that you learn what NOT to do - which in many ways is just as important to know as what TO do.
Looking back on my personal experiences, I now know what NOT to do.
But the biggest lesson I learned was the idea that failure is subjective.
This is what you must realize.
Understand: In your journey to master the approach you will meet failure, rejection, and set backs.
BUT... if you are willing to focus on the positives and not the negatives, you will continue to grow and get better and meeting and attracting women.
All the best in life and women!
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