Relationships, even though you'd never want them to, may actually go awry. In fact, from being just bad they may become rotten or complicated or unhealthy or even worse, abusive! A bad relationship, no matter how prolonged it is, does no good to any of the partners. Because, ultimately what matters in life is quality and not just quantity!
And when you are in an unhealthy relationship, it's time that you call it quits before it turns abusive.
Here are the signs of an unhealthy relationship. Read and compare your relationship (with fingers crossed) to find out if it is time to part ways:
WHEN IT BECOMES IMPOSSIBLE TO COMMUNICATE
Communication is the life blood of any relationship. As long as you can openly and freely communicate, problems are bound to stay at bay. But when you or your partner feel that it has become nearly impossible to convey your thoughts and feelings to each other, then it is time to pause and think.
The good part, though, is that communication issues can be actually resolved by confronting each other. If you attempt to, it may actually start working again!
INTIMACY…WHAT'S THAT?
It is true that as a relationship matures, the coochy-coo vanishes but intimacy is more than that. It could be a simple holding of hands, a hug or a flower given as a gift for no reason. When you find yourself saying “earlier when this would happen, you would do this...” at a lot of instances, please understand that something g is going wrong! The magic mantra to get out of it is again talking to your partner.
YOU FEEL YOU HAVE BEEN TAKEN FOR GRANTED
Nothing kills more than a sad love life and the feeling of being taken for granted, is just a part of it. If your partner pays no attention towards your feelings but falls on you for everything, you need to tell him that it is a two-way thing that he is into and not a self-comforting therapy.
WHEN THERE IS PHYSICAL ABUSE
There is absolutely no reason to stay with somebody who is violent. If the person cannot respect you so much so as to protect you from any physical harm, rather he is the one harming you, then he is certainly not worth your love. In fact, instances of physical abuse must be reported as criminal offence to the designated authorities despite all odds
WHEN IT'S ONLY FRUSTRATION AND DEPRESSION THAT FILL UP YOUR WORLD.
So you thought that today, no matter what, we'll not fight. And yet again you see that the two of you are in a heated argument, and you are walking back home with all the sadness, frustration and depression that you had vowed that you'll leave behind has again cropped up around you, it is time that you should let go of it. Give yourself some space, some time and some life. Walk out of the sadness and shine.
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